You Celebrated Independence Day, but are you Really INDEPENDENT?! 15 Ways to Live Life on Your Own Terms


I celebrated Independence Day at the Essence Festival in New Orleans over the 4th of July weekend. And let me tell you, I take forever to pack! Let’s just say, I was packing and preparing for this trip for a good month! LOL!

Essence Fest
My girls and I enjoying the Essence Festival!

As I prepared for my Independence Day celebration, I thought to myself, are we really independent? Not independent in the traditional way that we view Independence Day, but independent on a personal/individual level. Are we really living our lives independent of the stereotypes, assumptions, and opinions of how society thinks we should look, act, think, love, etc. Sometimes we have a tendency to live our life based on the fantasies of how other people think we should live instead of walking and living in the truth of our own reality. God has given us the power of choice, to create and live the life we want; but with the understanding that every choice has a consequence. Independence Day 2014 reminded me to always be authentically me and live independent of other peoples’ definition of who I am; to independently and confidently create and define my life, my reality, my truth. We only have one life to live and you can be sure that I’m going to live it on my own terms…and you should too!

Check out a few of my fave tips from 31 Ways To Live Life On Your Own Terms: A Fourth Of July Manifesto written by Tiphani N. Montgomery and learn how you can celebrate your personal independence everyday!

  1. First rule of business: Stay out of everyone else’s and be about yours!
  2. Closed doors are really a blessing. If you can’t pray a door open, don’t try to pry a door open.
  3. Wear your invisible crown. Daily.
  4. If you want to know where you’ll be five years from now, listen to your words. You’re prophesying your future.
  5. If you’re feeling guilty, embarrassed or ashamed about the blessings of God, let that go. You were created to show off His goodness.
  6. You are more important than you realize.
  7. “To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift!” — Steve Prefontaine
  8. “Excessive fear and self-doubt are the greatest detractors of personal genius.” — Robert Kiyosaki
  9. “When your work speaks for itself, don’t interrupt!” — Henry J. Kaiser
  10. “Don’t change so someone will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you!” —
  11. Examine what you tolerate!
  12. “Raise your words, not your voice. It’s rain that grows flowers, not thunder.” — Rumi
  13. Stop waiting on God to drop a blessing in your lap. Get on your knees and pray, then get on your feet and work!
  14. Repeat after me: “I can do this!!!
  15. Never, never, never, never, never, never give up. Never!

“This is your life. Commit to living it passionately. Don’t let the world dictate what that means for you. Show up. Show out. And rise to the occasion every single time.”- Tiphani N. Montgomery

Be Blessed!

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